1-2-3 Magic : effective discipline for children 2-12 / Thomas W. Phelan

Includes bibliographical references and index.

Preface to the Fourth Edition -- Introduction -- Job Available: Long Hours, No Pay, Excellent Benefits -- PART I: THINKING STRAIGHT -- PART II: CONTROLLING OBNOXIOUS BEHAVIOR (Job #1) -- PART III: MANAGING KIDS' TESTING AND MANIPULATION -- PART IV: ENCOURAGING GOOD BEHAVIOR (Job #2) -- PART V: STRENGTHENING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR CHILDREN (Job #3) -- PART VI: ENJOYING YOUR NEW FAMILY LIFE -- Appendix: Further Readings & Resources -- Index -- 1-2-3 Magic Stories and Comments.

"This revised edition of the award-winning 1-2-3 Magic program addresses the difficult task of child discipline with humor, keen insight, and proven experience. The technique offers a foolproof method of disciplining children ages two through 12 without arguing, yelling, or spanking. By means of three easy-to-follow steps, parents learn to manage troublesome behavior, encourage good behavior, and strengthen the parent-child relationship--avoiding the Talk-Persuade-Argue-Yell-Hit syndrome which frustrates so many parents. Ten strategies for building a child's self-esteem and the six types of testing and manipulation a parent can expect from the child are discussed, as well as tips on how to prevent homework arguments, make mealtimes more enjoyable, conduct effective family meetings, and encourage children to start doing their household chores. New advice about kids and technology and new illustrations bring this essential parenting companion completely up-to-date."